Money, and it’s Relationship with your Souls Desires

For many years I personally have struggled with money, not struggled making money, but keeping it. I have paid to do webinars, workshops, courses on money and all I seemed to gain was making the person selling the course to get wealthy, while nothing changed for me. I do agree to an extent that the Law of Attraction can help bring abundance, I also agree that when your vibrational energy is raised higher you can receive more abundance, I also believe that working on the belief of your self-worth can change a money situation but in all the theories and practices I read about attracting money there are some theories that I have that don't seem to be mentioned. What if your soul has chosen experiences in this lifetime which affects the amount of money you have in your life?

I noticed this with my own children. I have 5 sons they have all been brought up the same, all taught the same all loved equally, yet they all have their own concepts of money. For example, if I was to give each son a $10 note and said they could buy anything they wanted with their $10, this is what I noticed unfolded with them as children. So we are not talking about conditioned beliefs, when they are only around the ages of 6 to 10, the concept they have with money at that age seems to be coming more from a desire of their soul. We tend to blame a lot of our money patterns on our parents, when in fact we may have already had our ideas around money from a very early age and whether it is going to be important or unimportant in our life.

So each son is given $10 and this is how it is spent. Son number 1 finds a toy worth $8 and then goes looking for another toy that he can buy for $2, in his mind he wants to get the maximum amount for his money and if he can find 2 things that bring him joy, he will buy both within his budget. (enjoys what money gives him) Son number 2 goes shopping and tells me he left his money at home could he borrow $10 from me, which I give him. He finds a toy worth close to $10 and when we get home he conveniently forgets or always comes up with an excuse to never give me my $10 back. So he has already worked out he can use people for money, he has his toy and keeps his $10, he is showing signs of being smart with money at an early age.(tight with money) Son number 3, wants a toy right or wrong which is going to cost $15 he will use his $10 and borrows $5 from me (and pays it back later through jobs) because he is always going to want something bigger and better than his brothers, he is showing signs that he is willing to borrow money to get what he wants and he is willing to pay it back. (risk taker) Son number 4 goes shopping can't find what he wants comes home empty handed and waits for a while to see if can spend his money. He is a procrastinator and knows he won't want to rush into spending money. Something he wants this week, he won't want next week. He keeps his $10 until he can save and put more money with it and buy something he really wants (procrastinator). Son number 5 goes shopping spends his $10 on a toy immediately tries to sell it to a mate for $20 and double his money. His prime objective to buy and sell and make more money. (wheeler and dealer). These are all true accounts by the way.

So here is 5 different brothers all taught the same who all have different views on money from a very early age. Which makes me wonder if their soul has chosen to experience life a certain way, then that is how they are going to treat money. I have never been a saver but I question myself, is that because as a psychic I always know there is money going to come in and money is not important to my soul? I have not chosen a life where I want travel, or where I want materialistic items, or stuff to accumulate that I can't take with me, I don't need to spend money to impress other people, my soul is more interested in helping people, understanding life, giving rather than receiving and this sense that i have had many lifetimes of experiencing wealth and being poor so money doesn't seem to be a priority to me even though society dictates it should be. My soul may have decided that I would be happy for someone else to take care of me so I never have to want for money. Or my soul may have decided to be independent and feel a need to feel worthwhile by creating a life on my own without help.

Someone else's soul may wish to experience fine dining, luxury surroundings, expensive gifts and not for the need to impress other's but to feel a personal satisfaction that they are surrounded by what they consider lovely items, there soul may feel complete in some way with those surroundings.

There have been occasions where someone has won the lottery and they spend it all or give it away, some people hold judgement on this, thinking they have no gratitude for what they won, but what if their soul doesn't feel it is needed for them and they would prefer to give it away to others. Or what if the soul chose the experience of poverty and this was a test for the soul, would they keep it or give it away?

Can we change the contract our soul has with ourselves around money? I believe we can

when we understand what role money plays in our souls contract with ourselves. If my soul chooses to continue to keep giving, then money received is a blessing so I can still share it or share more of my time for free. If your soul has been wanting you to learn a lesson in your self-worth, then receiving money will be a test in that area to see if you feel you deserve to receive it. Something else which stands out as very important which I have noticed, if I don't have money or I need it in a hurry, I can become very creative in how I manifest money. I tend to do a lot more work to find avenues to create money, if I suddenly had a million dollars maybe I wouldn't be as creative, maybe I would become lazy and spend my days laying on a sun lounge in the Caribbean but this would not be feeding my soul's desires. Having a large

amount of money may in fact make me feel bored with life.

But the reality of life on Earth, is we need money to live, we need it to pay bills and do the things that the soul wants to experience. What I witnessed with myself, when I was/am single I find I don't hang onto money, I tend to live in a sense of freedom without caring about money, when in a relationship I have money because i chose a partner who had money as a primary focus, there is something in my psyche, in my mindset,

or lesson from my soul about responsibility for the self. So I am going to ask my soul if I can

still receive the lesson it needs about taking responsibility for myself but in other ways that are not related to money. I feel this is a way of turning around the situation so money can flow into my life and my soul can still receive the lesson it requires.

I believe this is why when you are practicing the Law of Attraction and focusing on wanting money to come into your life, if your soul, your essence of being doesn't feel it is important to your journey, then you are still going to struggle to receive it, it's like it counteracts what you are trying to achieve. I feel this is the key part if you can get to the core of this belief within yourself and understand it about yourself, then you can break that contract that you made. Having a conversation with yourself in the form of "I understand the lessons I have had to learn, I am thankful for those lessons, but I have changed my mind on what I thought about the importance of money, I am grateful for any assistance I am given with my financial position". Your soul may have chosen to experience a life of poverty or hardship and every situation you have found yourself in, is giving you that experience. So acknowledge you understand the experience and wish to now change it. I have experienced what it is like to struggle, I have experienced what it is like to worry about my finances, and now I wish to experience what it feels like to be wealthy, I wish to experience what it feels like to never have to worry about money again.

(If you follow a lot of people marketing their ideas on how to get rich, 98% of them were broke or bankrupt before turning it around, they acknowledged the lesson their soul gave them).

When you really connect with who you are, do you really believe a huge home, lots of cars, holidays around the world, are going to make you happy? Is that what your soul really wants or is that your ego trying to show others around you that you are successful in life? Or are you just asking that all your bills are met and there is some money left over every week so you don't have to worry about money? Really think about the context of what you are asking for

and if it feels in alignment with your soul's desires. Be clear about exactly what you want your financial situation to look like.

For you to best work on changing your money situation if that is what you desire to do, then get to the bottom of what your beliefs are and what you feel your soul really thinks money should represent to you in this lifetime. Find the common link that you have with money and see if you too can receive your soul lesson through another avenue other than it affecting your money. If your soul has chosen to experience what 'selfish' feels like, you may have a lot of money but little friends, complicated relationships, disassociation with love. If your soul has chosen to experience what "kindness" feels like, you may not have much money, but you have lots of friends, lots who love you, a real empathy for life. If your soul has chosen to experience what being 'spoilt' feels like then you may have chosen to be born into a wealthy family and are always looked after by someone else to pay your way. If your soul has chosen to experience what 'independence' feels like then you may be working for yourself and not willing to accept help from others preferring to do it all alone.

When you really analyse who you are and the choices you have made in your life you will see the patterns that your soul has been wanting to experience and this understanding of the self can help you to rectify certain areas of your life.

I hope you have received something from reading this, there may have been a light bulb moment in some part that will help you to understand yourself a lot more and to help get you on a different path to receiving the abundance that you require for your growth.